What kids? “Our” children? You always said you have one kid but not with this man. He has his own kids? Where is their mother? Is that the same guy who you were broken up to last winter because he wanted space? Are you back together or is this a new guy? You two live together now? I am so confused. If that’s the same guy who isn’t very supportive and doesn’t treat you that well, why are you doing everything for him? He can hire a nurse and he must have some family who can take his kids while he is recovering