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Originally Posted by divine1966
People’s real nature is usually revealing itself pretty soon in relationships. Few months the most. Unless someone is complete scammer and con-artist, then it maybe could go on longer, otherwise it’s pretty obvious. The trick is to pay attention.
I don’t think age matters. Unless you do prefer older men, I don’t think specific age will matter at all
Certainly you shouldn’t give up at 28. In fact this is just a start for looking for serious relationships. Many people aren’t even considering it at younger age.
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divine1966. I get that. My dating people for a few months and letting them go when thoughts that it won't last come about, isn't something I should feel bad about. It was just weighing on my conscience the past few weeks and making me feel like I might have commitment issues. I need to figure out, hope, pray.. something, to attract the person who is right for me.
True. I've always known that age should not matter. I have considered though that maybe the maturity I seek is in an older man. But you are right, age does not equal maturity.
Thanks for that! I'm not going to give up. Have just been a bit down on myself lately. I wasn't thinking about marriage in my teens and early 20s tbh. So I guess I shouldn't be that surprised that I attracted partners who weren't the best fit.