This is also a great reason to move on, though, isn't it? The client is supposed to unconsciously try to re-enact the past, and the therapist is supposed to know how to work with the patterns and not get sucked into it. Dr. T got sucked in, which, to be fair, is not surprising for a therapist who doesn't work with attachment issues and who took on a client who specifically wants to work on attachment issues. You can blame the client if you want to because she's the one who posts here, but I don't think she was getting what she needed from Dr. T to rework any of this.