Firstly he's in the military and is deployed in South Korea.
I go to college in Maryland U.S.A and the time difference is 13 hours.
We have been on and off for 4 months, having petty arguments.
First it was he wanted to focus on himself, 2 weeks later he contacts me again. Then afterwards we fought 3 more times, first time was that I was annoying, then it was I thought I ouldn't do it anymore, and third time a photoshoot and that I thought I was doing all the effort. And he thought he was being smothered.
I fell in love with him the first time I saw him, and he really likes me but we don't know to do a long distance relationship. We have both never done it before, and I think thought it would be easy but it isn't. We also have very busy schedules, and have a hard time figure out when to FT.

After we broke up I asked him if he wanted a relationship, and he said he wanted to go with the flow... I can't do that. I've always been a planner. So that's when I decided to focus on school and get into the rhythm of my schedule.

I decided to do the no contact thing, and I don't know if that is going to work or even help. Each day it makes me sad to not text him. I want to share the cool things or happy moments I experienced, but I haven't. I have a lot of pride, and I just don't know what to do. I was wondering if you could help me....I could really use it. I'm so lost, and in a lot of pain. 😢

Thank you,
Life777