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Originally Posted by WovenGalaxy
This evening, he told me he was just hanging out w his cat. We were having a text convo, and I thought "maybe we could talk in person." So I brought it up. I mean, he lives close by me. Why text? He replied with "Aw." And never said a peep again. That was like 2 hrs ago. The conversation died.
I didn't say anything back because what kind of response is that? It hurt.
I am assuming we will never see each other again now. And while that may be for the best, I'm just confused about this dude and bummed. I feel I've been pretty direct and communicative w him and I'm not sure I'm getting that back?
We both agreed we enjoyed our date and wanted to do it again. So Idk. I feel weird about it now.
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Perhaps you feel weird because he is not a good fit for you? Whatever it is, just try to relax and wait and see. I overthink things way too much and perhaps this is what is going on with you. Confusion, feeling bummed, etc.--just feelings. Try to accept and understand them but remember--they are just feelings and sometimes we interpret too many things from what people have said. Many times, it is best to let men chase you at this point. I would let it die if he doesn't make an effort to chase you. It sounds like you are not sure he values/likes you enough so try to let it go unless you start getting another signal. Right now, your feelings are saying it's not going to work. Dating is awkward.
