No his kids will not come up here “ they are too busy, now” oh I internally rage over that bull shyt. They did come one time about 6-7 years ago for 3 days.

I am furious that they didn’t at least have Payton FaceTime him on Grandparents day.

His boys are selfish and don’t think, I said something years ago to them about making time for there father, they said something to him and Steve and I had a gigantic fight over it , we barely spoke for over a week. So I refuse to do that again.

I get along with his kids , but outside of seeing them in Florida we don’t communicate. If Steve winds up in the hospital then I keep them updated, I know if he was real bad they would come, but I think it’s bull shyt that they can’t come up for a long weekend when he would be feeling good and really enjoy showing Payton our home and acres of woods to explore. They all have well paying jobs and travel a lot but not here to Tennessee.

My T has tried to get me to understand sons are totally different than Daughters. My daughter and I talk and text all the time, his boys ? Not much at all with him.

My daughter keeps in touch with him all the time , sending him silly memes or just a random “ Stevers I love you “ etc. so yes boys are much different.

Blended families are a whole other animal.