Yes, I think it's possible. I'm worried my current T is leading me there. The only advice I have is talk about everything. I tell my T EVERY SINGLE THING about how I feel about him, so that there is no confusion on his end. He knows I'm overly attached and he knows how I feel. I trust him to set the boundaries appropriately (and hope he does so).

That being said I can see how the change in contact would be hard. We talk about 8-9 times per week (not a traditional 1 hour weekly session kind of thing). I feel it really hard when he is on vacation or there is a holiday. However, I feel secure that he won't decrease the time, since it is basically a 1 hour/week equivalent. So I guess in your case, I would want whatever the agreement is to be consistent and it sounds like your T hasn't done that.