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Originally Posted by divine1966
It kind of saddens me to read on here how many people don’t go to therapy to improve their life or have a safe place to talk or what not but go to therapy because they are overly attached to their therapists up to the point that their entire life is in shambles or put on hold because they can’t function without relying on their therapists 24/7.
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I go to therapy to have safe place to talk but in doing so I am overly attached that I do not function without relying on him.
How does someone go to therapy to improve their lives or have a safe place to talk that has a attachment disorder, cPTSD, BPD, dissociative disorder and NOT get attached to someone who for the first time hears and sees them, nurture them like the parent they never had? How do you stop the brain from doing that? If the therapist is strict, stern with tight boundaries healing does not occur.
Where is the fine line? I do not want to go back to where I was before therapy. I think I will take this painful attachment over the hell I was dealing with before.