I guess accountability is in the same neighborhood as dependency? I feel like I am more accountable to my t than I am to myself, and that's part of the reason I'm taking a break from seeing her right now. I need to practice being 100% accountable to ME. She didn't agree with me on that concern, of course, but tough toenails. It's how I feel. She is also very focused on the relationship being super important, says that "this doesn't work" without the relationship, etc. But I feel like we are too close in some ways, I dunno. I just needed to pull back for awhile and try to look at this 'relationship' objectively.