I am SO SORRY that you have to deal with ALL OF THIS, walkingby! I understand how that would be annoying to you. Have you tried to have a serious talk with her about ALL OF THIS? I'd give it a try if you haven't already! I am so sorry that you're going through ALL OF THIS! I TRULY AM! It is good that you won't have to Live with Her for long at least. If she has no intention to change, at the very least you'll be able to get away from her if her behavior is upsetting you SO BADLY! I am TRULY, DEEPLY SORRY that you're hurting and struggling SO BADLY and that you're going through ALL OF THIS, I TRULY, REALLY AM! My advice would be to interrupt communication with her if she doesn't stop behaving like this. You have EVERY RIGHT to stand up for yourself! Feel free to PM me ANYTIME when you need someone to talk to or vent to or even simply advice and support! I am SURE PLENTY OF OTHERS will also GLADLY, KINDLY, BEAUTIFULLY, MARVELLOUSLY, GENEROUSLY, ALTRUISTICALLY, WISELY AND WONDERFULLY help you out as well if you just ask! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you and your Mother, @walkingby, your Family, your Friends and ALL Of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking! I am TRULY, DEEPLY SORRY that you're hurting and struggling SO BADLY and that you're going through ALL OF THIS!