A friend asked me to be a trustee for her estate. I asked my dad what that entailed and he asked me some questions to ask my friend. I'm not sure I want to take on that role but they don't have any children, and they hardly have any family. I feel like I would let her down if I said no. But then I'm looking at all the stuff you have to do, and I'm like, eek. I'm not sure I'm the one for the job. My Dad just did it for his Dad and I saw how hard he worked at it. I don't feel like, mature enough, or something.