So, I am enrolled in a competitive program. To put it blunt: the program I am in has near-to-no jobs, so first impressions are important.

The site I was working at for school, I had issues with. A classmate knew I had trouble with many people there, and I wanted to handle things constructively and independently. What does she do? She approaches my program director and tells her all of the issues I have had when I specifically did not want my director knowing. To add insult to injury, she even requested to be present in a private meeting between myself and my director discussing my evaluations. Furthermore, she even confided in my that semesters ago she told my director about a conflict we had, and was telling her that my personality will clash with the people at the site I am at and that she 'foreshadowed' all of these series of events. I am like are you kidding me? You have no right to be doing that. You should have approached me first, and I handle it, not you. I like to be independent, and not get higher-ups involved in petty conflicts. It's part of life, and I feel as though my 'friend' hurt my chances and I was caught off guard. She also notified my director of comments I had about the people I am working with, which I was not appreciative at all! I was so mad! Would any of you be upset as well???