Hello koolaidad: Your concern is not one I can address. However I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central.

Here are links to 8 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of co-parenting:

How to Co-Parent Successfully after Divorce

10 Essentials of Co-Parenting After a Divorce | The Exhausted Woman

Steps to Successful Co-Parenting

Ten Rules for Effective Co-Parenting | The Exhausted Woman

Co-Parenting with a Difficult Ex | Relationships in Balance

https://pro.psychcentral.com/recover...-co-parenting/

https://pro.psychcentral.com/exhaust...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/lib/why-you...ers-parenting/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.