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Old Sep 18, 2019, 07:35 PM
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I'm sorry about this post. I'm just looking for somebody to tell me that things will get better.

My father has been diagnosed with lung cancer, stage 4. It has already spread to the brain. He was an alcoholic for decades, so his liver is not functioning well either.
I live with him and my mother. My brother lives here 4/5 days a week too.
The situation at home is really stressful. My father can't do anything by himself. He is in a wheelchair. He can't go to the bathroom. He would be just lying in bed almost all day if it depended on him. We got him up everyday, which is a continuos fight because he starts yelling and insulting us since he doesn't want.
The tumours in his brain are affecting his personality and his mood. There is shouting all the time. He doesn't want to eat or drink. And my mom is crying all the time because of the insults.

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and I need to know that it will get better and that I will be happy again and that things will be well in the near future.
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