(((((razzleberry)))))
don't give up. Every day, keep giving her those hugs and kisses, and always tell her how much you love her. I never bonded with my youngest because my PND was so severe, and she picked up that I wasn't 'well' and responded in the only way a baby can- by looking to the next person who can give them that unconditional love also (dad if he's there). But as you become well the bond will form and improve, especially if you keep reinforcing your love for her every day and never give up. Good luck