I hear you, shakespeare! I've never witnessed this personally, but I can DEFINITELY understand how TERRIBLE it would be to hear something like that! I've sometimes been asked by my parents if I were taking my Meds in reaction to me arguing with them. It's not very nice in my opinion although I'm sure they mean well. I understand your pain! I COMPLETELY agree with the WISE and WONDERFUL TunedOut! Your wife should be honest to you. Perhaps you can talk top her about ALL of this and see how it goes from there. Hopefully that will help a bit! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you and her, @shakespeare47, your family, your friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking!