I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH THE WISE AND WONDERFUL @Molinit! I AM TRULY, DEEPLY SORRY THAT BOTH YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIENDS ARE HURTING AND STRUGGLING SO BADLY AND THAT YOU'RE BOTH GOING THROUGH ALL OF THIS! I definitely feel like he should seek the help of a Therapist. From what you're saying it DOES seem like he's having problems with Porn Addiction and he needs to work on it, even simpy out of respect for YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP! So yes, definitely talk it through with him and if he refuses to get ANY help then I'm sorry to say it, but you may want to end the relationship with him! I hope you'll be able to work things out with him though! Feel free to PM me ANYTIME when you need Advice And Support or even simply someone to talk to or vent to! I am SURE plenty of others will also GLADLY, KINDLY, BEAUTIFULLY, WISELY AND WONDERFULLY help you out as well if you just ask! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you and your boyfriend, @amyyyyblack, your family, your friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING! I AM TRULY, DEEPLY SORRY THAT BOTH YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND ARE HURTING AND STRUGGLING SO BADLY AND THAT BOTH YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND ARE GOING THROUGH ALL OF THIS! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING!