Lately she will just get bossy and give commands like, "go take a picture of that for me"... and I hate myself for usually doing what she asks. I think next time I'll just calmly say something like "nah, you can do it". I can tell she does this because she is angry about something, but when I bring it up, she refuses to discuss it- but doesn't deny being angry.

She mocks me for being face-blind.

She mocks my interest in philosophy.

She deliberately slows down a conversation and refuses to answer questions and says something like, "I'm sorry, I have slow processing." Considering all I know about her, this smacks of insincerity and pettiness.

She refuses to take me seriously when I tell her how much I detest being around her family - because of the way they treat me. And refuses to help me find a solution. I suggested driving separately, and she made an issue of it, told her family what I was doing, and keeps trying to get me to ride together- even though she told me she did agree that it was a good solution.