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Originally Posted by susannahsays
I would find another therapist. Psychoanalysis isn't the only option. Of course, an analyst will want you to have an analysis. But you don't know how long it will take and if it will actually resolve your issues in the long run. And $1,800/month is $21,600/year - plus, I've never heard of an analysis only taking one year. It sounds like this isn't a feasible option for you, so I would accept that and move on. Wishing for what can't be for a prolonged period and trying to make it happen anyway will only cost you more money.
ETA: Not to be harsh, but if the intense analysis is helping you so much, why are you inpatient? Is it really the best investment you could be making?
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Not harsh at all...It's a vaild question. Memories and pieces of memories are .sneaking back in and I'm unable to deal with them safely as an outpatient. He has given me a break in cost. He's lowered it to $275, but seeing him 3 times a week will break the bank. The reason I see him is that I have never found a therapist who can almost "see inside my head." He's top in his field. I was amazed when I first met him; how he can read people. I'm lucky to have him. I realise it sounds silly, but I've been to many therapists over many years, I've tried every medication, and ECT with little improvement . After seeing him for a short time, I noticed a greater understanding of why I am the way I am and the issues in my family. I'm not sure what I'll do, but I will find a way to afford him at least 2x a week.
Thank you all for your comments and caring.