an unsolicited observation:

he pryed it out of you?

You didn't want to tell him yet he pryed it out of you?? Your choice of language speaks loudly about how your are perceiving your life. Take the stance of survivor and talk the talk girlfriend! You CHOSE to tell a friend instead of the passive form of my friend PRYED it out of me. Look at who is in charge in the different phrasings.

The Spazzmo I know is someone who is on that learning path and has an open mind for change.....

gently,
--zh