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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
This will be harsh but you and your husband have to cut all ties with them. Every single one. Block their numbers, do not accept their mail even go as far as getting a restraining order. This goes beyond them ruining your marriage. Now you have an unfit grandma and an equally blind unfit grandpa. What if your friend acted like this? Would you have them over and let them be around the baby? If you are in the US you can get them tresspassed from your property so that if they come on to it they are immediately arrested. I am sure they will threaten you will legal intervention for grandparents rights but do not pay any attention. Her history is enough to shoot that ***** down.
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Thank you for your response! Everyone has very valid points. I guess I should have mentioned my husband and I haven’t seen them aside from their awful visit I mentioned before Christmas. That’s the problem my husband has. He has been a victim his whole life as well and while he knows things they do/say is wrong he still loves them. He wants validation from them that they are proud and to see his son grow up. He’s never gotten a pat on the back from his father. Most of our arguments are because they called and texted and said something awful or because they want to be in our lives. They can’t handle once a month they are smothering and boundaries would never be acceptable for them. They guilt trip him every angle possible. I feel like a horrible wife because I know he doesn’t talk to them because of the pain they’ve caused, but if it wasn’t for me he would probably still see them because to him that life is normal.