ever feel out of place when you see the modern day woman and especially mother that seems to have it all together. they jugle the husband, kids, work, the family and friends? i feel intimidated by these women. i know that i shouldn't but i can't seem to shake the feeling that "look if they can manage it all, howcome i can't pull it together to do those things? i don't seem to have the consistancy mentally, emotionally, and physically. it's so frustrating because with my ups and downs it's not motivating at all although i find other ways to be productive. i do what i can to stay up so that way when i'm down i have something positive to look forward to. but still am i less of a person if i like to stay home and take care of things around there? it's not that i'm lazy but it seems that i function better in my home inviornment where i'm not jepordizing a work place. plus i feel inadequate because of the way that i feel especially when i can't consentrate or focus. Am i the only one guys? this has really been bothering me and i can't seem to find an exeptable comfort zone to move on...comes with low self-esteem and lack of confidence. any advice is good advice, thank you