you ask are you the only one? definitely not! and as for the women you talk about....sorry if this doesn't help you but it's all i got...one of my closest friends is one of the type of women you mention here..successful in her career, high-flying, juggling everything with apparent ease...i used to envy her big time...

but you know what....after 6 years of knowing her she broke down one day and told me she wasn't what she looked like to the outside world...she was always exhausted, always feeling guilty, always struggling etc etc...she'd just learned to put on a good show.

my point is....there's no such thing as a perfect woman so never let yourself be fooled into thinking there is and NEVER let yourself feel inadequate coz some other woman APPEARS to be more perfect than you!!!

sorry if this is no help to you...but like i said...it's all i got.

((((shaggy))))