I think, from what you have said about him, your husband may well be having a midlife crisis. The therapist not have said the words "mid-life crisis" to him because some men find it insulting. I think you are doing the sensitive thing in waiting to talking to him until he finishes his PhD. I don't know, however, whether you might want to avoid the term "mid.
-life crisis" because it makes some men angry. But you know your husband best, and I can definitely see why you think he is having one
Good luck!
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