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Old Sep 23, 2019, 03:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
I've been hurt so many times by people I trusted. IRL. I won't go into details. I've decided to return to my old "coping" mechanism, of isolation. Don't get close, don't agree to talk to anyone every day, don't share who you really are. Dont care "too much".
This is in Real Life, (3D) I've known people there who have used and hurt me emotionally. I think they think I'm easy to hurt.
Thanks for this thread Fuzzy! So much good advice.

That there are people who have hurt someone as sweet as you makes me angry!

I am learning to share less with the people who don't seem to care or just act like they care because they want something from me. I have to remind myself about their past behavior all of the time. I forgive easily--which is good for my soul but I also need to keep in mind their past behavior and not be so easily played in the future.

Thanks for being someone who we can trust! Thanks for your big, wonderful, loving sensitive heart! Thanks for being part of the PC community!!
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear