Yes that’s true. But he has eased off on the flirting now so whether that’s because I’ve put that distance there or whether it’s because he’s become more serious with her, who knows for sure. I don’t know, maybe I’m trying to make excuses for him or maybe I’ve just become so used to this being the norm now.l. Either way it’s not ideal, I know. You’re right. How do I get rid of him completely if we have friends in common etc too though? It’s hard.