crisscross, it seems to me that the young woman is a wimp and didn't have the courage to say she wasn't interested and that you were making her uncomfortable. Instead, she ran to Mommy and Daddy (the boss or HR). In her defense, what the others said above is very much to blame, too. I'm sorry you have to deal with that as a man. You don't deserve this as men.

So you know, I'm a middle-aged woman.