Sorry for the delay. She will not cut back on the Zoloft and pot has no stimulating effects for her. She apologizes for lack of interest and I always say “it’s okay, it is what it is.” But like I said before, if your partner never was into the different kinds of foreplay
You get to the point where they no longer turn you on anyway. I have found ways to have good prolonged sex by myself. Estim, sounding, toys, you can probably guess what kind of toys. The larger point is, I’d like to be with another person but I don’t think I can handle the guilt. It’s especially hard because I am on ADHD meds and they make me want sex more than usual. Thanks for letting me get this off my mind, I think it helps some. I appreciate any thoughts or advice