Thank you both, Buffy & Bill.
I have already asked him if he was seeing someone before and he said he wasn’t at that time, but I suppose I could bring it up again.
I’ve also tried to explain that I need distance before but he doesn’t seem to want it - he just confuses me because he made out he liked me when I said that but still never acted on it - I just feel like there were a lot of mixed signals in the end. I could just reaffirm that though now that circumstances are probably different with him being involved elsewhere.
I was hoping he’d just stop contacting me eventually, and that may happen yet, so I’ll just have to wait and see. ☺️