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Originally Posted by Broadsword60
Greetings!
Recently she suggested going on a hike together, an idea I am ecstatic about. This could be the start of something new and fun. We just recently saw each other at a little presentation on birds (yeah, we’re “nerds” haha) and had a very brief but cheerful talk (I was in a wee rush).
To put this in a nutshell, Im really worried that my lack of experience will hurt/ruin a relationship. I can’t shake this.
Any tips?
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Most of the friends I felt closest to in high school/college were a bit nerdy--good grades, some anxieties (whether social or in regards to not messing things up/overthinking, etc. It does seem like you are a bit anxious about this. The key is to just relax and have fun with her and not worry about what happens.
That she asked you means she likes you at least as a friend. With dating, if you are meant to be--within the first few dates--you will just connect naturally. I don't think chemistry can be forced but if you are too worried about saying or doing the right things--the real you won't shine.
I absolutely love hikes and the first date I went on in hs was a hike on the Highline Trail. I have been in love with hiking ever since and went back over and over again by myself to hike that trail. If you like hiking--then you should have a great time, just try to enjoy/focus on the hike and be a good listener and I bet it will be great!!!! The key to getting to know other people is to find activities you both like to do.
