Oh (((((((((bebop)))))))))) . . . I can't imagine your sadness. Anniversaries of deaths are always difficult times. This one is rather tough for you all because children are just so wonderful...hopes were crushed. Your angels didn't suffer.
And I'm certain when timing is right she'll be pregnant again.
Make sure she eats the green veggies for her folic acid! According to my doc ....Supposed to eat greens before getting pregnant (to ensure healthy eggs release). So no alcohol that month before trying nor the months trying to get pregnant.