My pdoc is about a couple decades younger than me. T is even younger. I'm fine with that. Personality and being able to work together well is WAY more important to me than age. I don't know their exact ages and wouldn't dream of asking them. Because a) it doesn't matter to me and b) it's kind of insulting (just ask any professional under the age of forty how they feel about being regarded as incompetant based solely on their age.)

I *do* have a heavy-duty preference for female Ts. Which is kind of funny because I generally get on better with guys. (It's because of some of my issues -- a major one of which stems from a traumatic incident with a male doctor when I was quite young.)