This makes sense to me. My SH is how I express myself- and I know that is incredibly hard for others to understand. But sometimes its our unique differences that are the most meaningful as it relates to our interaction with others and our relationships. It can be tough though when I encounter someone who doesn't understand my scars. My SH has decreased a lot with therapy and medication, but I don't think it will ever truly go away in moments of high stress or my manic episodes. It's a part of me. Its where I've come from and reminds me who I am.