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Old Sep 25, 2019, 06:43 PM
TishaBuv TishaBuv is offline
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
Not exactly romantic crush. It's complicated. And obsession is another word ppl used on me. They accused me of "obsessing" over him and being "massively in love with him." But I feel so empty bc ppl who initially like me always end up turning against me for the same reason. He said we could talk tomorrow when I work. How do I get him to understand that I was only being really friendly and not a creep? My Arby's supervisor failed to understand that.
I’m sorry, Ruby, it’s you who is not understanding this problem you are creating for yourself. Do you work with a therapist?

You need to only act “average nice” with him and back off. I hope your talk goes well tomorrow.
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Thanks for this!
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