Ok seeing as the sexual thread isnt quite the placeto put this. I put it here.

It is related and as usual a side effect.
I may sound like a broken record

CANCER SUCKS

Once you get rid of the nasty stuff you are left to carry on with life the best you can and the doctors move onto the next patient.

You are to be grateful that its all gone and it takes time for things to get as they were.
Unless you fall into the 2 % of people that stuff just happens to and there is just problem apon problem.

So it comes down to needing someone to stimulate the blood flow back .
But its like i have commited a crime asking for help.
If you could swear here this is where i would insert it ............ ed
Im not going to take being soft for the rest of my life anddont have the cashflow for internal pumps.
The death of my sexlife is much more than just not having sex.
I was just half a man before due to dx
Now all i crave is closness and intimacy.
If only the world would do something for me instead of 'remember when we had the chance'

The world sucks when you fall through the cracks.