Thank you for the answer and suggestions.

I just hope the psy will be good enough to diagnose her correctly. If he says she does not have anything, she will just think everything she does is normal and that is just because she is unlucky that she did not have a stable relationship till 33 years old...

I don't know if she does not want me to know about it or diagnose her. She seemed very honest in general.


I think she just does not think she has a problem, or that is not very big her problem. She admits that she's not very stable emotionally, but she surely does not even think of having BPD.

For her, a BPD must be like a real mad man from horror movies with very very intense crisis... of course she is not that, but she does have the majority of symptoms (if she is observed long enough) even tho she does not admit them...