Thanks for all the replies. It's really nice to read how many people have ts who are open to contact on some level. I guess people whose ts aren't may not post here though. Lol. I'm hoping my current t will be as I'm devastated at the thought of never seeing her again even though I don't plan to end any time soon. I don't expect to meet up or anything, but email contact a few times a year or something would be nice. I hope she isn't like my former T who saw an ending as exactly that, no ifs or buts.