((((((((((((( muffy ))))))))))))))

This is a huge process you are going through....learning how to do the self care that you need and learning how to set the boundaries that your sister so desperately needs. The fact that you are reaching out....questioning....learning.....it's all good! You will find what works for you

Remember, in this thing we call life....we always get what we need. It may not be what we think we want, but is always what we need. This applies to your sister as well as you

Much love & respect to the sheep!
sabby