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I'm sorry; your situation sounds complicated. I am aware, as much as possible, that the post-Soviet situation was extremely difficult in so many ways for the people.
It is impossible, and would not be ethical, for me to try to "diagnose" your mother-in-law. Sure, it sounds like she has mental health problems, though. Perhaps trauma and stress exacerbated her organic illness? Certainly governmental situations can cause immense amounts of stress for people, especially for those who are already somewhat fragile. That is just my thought.
How much space do your MIL and granny share? I'm wondering if the 2 of them might remain living together - but in a larger space so they don't have to interact as much. It sounds like the other options might, in the end, be even more troublesome for all of you.
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