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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
But, I think, to generally refuse help, as a rule, isnÂ’t a great thing to do either. Trusting and accepting help to a point is healthy, so is being trusted and helping others.
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But, but, I hate them and they're unworthy of my trust.
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It is a very subtle thing of how to know when to accept and how to reciprocate, or when that is not necessary.
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It is a very subtle thing, and I don't think many people are good at it, at least judging from how awkward and flustered most people seem when caught in these situations. Case in point, rdgrad's wallet thief lady. She handled that situation terribly and turned a small kindness into something painfully awkward for everyone involved.
I would've fought her for taking my wallet. Seriously.