Thanks, It's all great to hear different opinions on this. I don't feel comfortable just out right saying something dirty, but he is very expressive during sex (maybe the only time...lol) and he thinks it should be easy to be open between the sheets cause we have been married for 3 1/2 years........i think my fear of "dirty talk" is what if I say something that makes him say "omg...she didn't just say that" Wouldn't that just be embarrassing...lol. has anybody said anything that could have been embarrassing b4?