I think your right rhapsody, I guess I can't just give up on him, I know he isn't out having an affair, so I guess it's to be treated like an addiction, and I know thats just something you shouldn't do is give up. i think that in my past relationships, that was the first thing I did do...give up. I think I will try a little harder with him, I do truly love him. it's just something that we both have to work on together. Thanks for the support.