i just want to add on here that good care and a good home/facility or hospital would be a must. do homework, a site visit, reviews ect. even in my case i wouldn't want my mom or anyone to get bad care or neglected, but bad places, and staff exist. its horrible but true. my mother and i moved in with my great grand father because he didn't want to die in a home and his daughter (my moms mom) was just gonna toss him in one and move on with her life. my mother wouldn't hear of it. this is what prompted me into the carer field and role.

ETA: or an in home aid, hospice at the end, or as needed, what you need for help and breaks. we did that and qualified for a care giver towards the end of life but before hospice care level to give my mom and me away time from the house to do things.