I know where you are coming from, I have the post "caught up in a situation" the men are giving me some helpful advice. Except I have been married for 3 1/2 years, and now porn is an issue, as for the beginning of my relationship with him...no porn, it was all about us. i am not one for any good advice in your situation, but maybe if you read what the guys are writing in that post, it might help.