I just wanted to say I agree with Jane. No women is perfect like that and the ones that appear that way are most likely hiding there own struggles. Being a Mom is enough of a job. If that is what you do that is a great thing by itself and adding more to your plate will not really benifit anyone. If you focus on your family you will do a great job. If you have to many things to do something will be sacrificed whether family time or the quality of your work.