"she is in treatment...she sees a therapist every week....we have LOTS OF LOTS of problems....we argue and fight over nothing 90% of the time....im really really afraid of being with someone who is unfaithful...i have past relationships that are the cause of that......the symptoms of BPD include....UNPROTECTED SEX....UNSTABLE INTERPERSONAL RELATONSHIPS.....what do they mean unstable? does that mean people with BPD jump from relationship to relationship?? they find a guy, be with him and then move on to another?? "

i havent been DXed with borderline or nothin,but i read up on it and some of my mates have it.i think the arguments are mostly caused by the 'i hate you dont leave me' complex thingy. for example, i hate my ex bfs guts. with good reason. but i am so afraid of being alone God knows what id do if he stoppped being my friend. i need him. the unstable interpersonal relationships can just be referring to yours. she wold go from idealising you as a perfect person to depreciation, and thinking u r gonna leave bla bla bla. she wont nessascarily run off. in fact i severely doubt it. BPD sufferers tend to cling to those who they know wont leave them i think. especially in their impulsive mode, which i think is when they are most worried abot rejection. they are impulsive cuz they are trying to do things to prevent real or imagined abandonment. if i am speaking shizm tell me guys, but this is what i got from experience from mates and tinternet
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