I guess I’m just very hurt because I would have thought that for a child to ex communicate their own mother something serious had to have happened. I can totally understand it if the mother was abusive or something equally serious, but this is a child who had as ‘normal’ a childhood as any kid. She was fed and had her own room. She went to nice schools and taken traveling. I just don’t think anything that happened to get warrants this reaction. I still think she has an undiagnosed mental illness. I’ve posted here before about her. She always did react violently when asked to do something. I guess what I need to find is a support group for parents whose kids are rejecting them. I’m finding it difficult to cope with.