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Old Sep 28, 2019, 02:06 PM
Barbie1985 Barbie1985 is offline
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Member Since: Sep 2019
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Hi just join this forum so I can get some answers for my relationship. Couple days ago I checked my husband’s phone message. There is this girl he was talking to every single day which I had no clue. I know this girl. We all work together. But couple months ago she moved somewhere else. But my husband is texting her everyday. And I saw couple messages which were red alert for me. Right away I decided to ask him he denied that there is nothing after 2hours he said he messed up we are married for 11 years. And he said he messed up but there is no physical attraction they are just talking to each other. And it looks like I am a fool who let him do whatever I have never asked him who he is talking to or what he is doing never bcos I trust him. Now I feel betrayed. He keeps telling me she is innocent and it’s all his fault and he will stop. I love this men and we have two kids and I don’t know what to do. Again I ask him do you want her or us. He said I want you guys and I will stop this and he deleted her no from phone and promised me never to contact her again. I was checking my instagram and she popped up as a recommendation as she is friends with my husband on that. So I told him to unfollow her and block he said no . As she is just friend not anything else. He said I need to stop this and move on I am going crazy and I am not understanding that they are just friends and I am just jealous that he is talking to someone else. Is my feeling wrong ? Pls advise and help.
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