Mickey it was bad. It was very bad. My wife and I are trying to work through it but there is no guarantee that we will be able to. It has fractured the already frail relationship I have with my brother. At this point I don't want to ever see or speak to him again. My parents are disappointed in me, to say the least. I don't know how my brother's wife's family is taking it. I'm sure not good. There was a lot that came out and all of it was very damning. Nothing criminal but most of it highly frowned upon by normal society.