Me : I told my Mother a few things she didn't like and refused to bend to her will and she rejected me.

My T : This is a dysfunctional childhood attachment pattern. There was something wrong with your Mother. You need to accept and understand that it wasn't your fault.

Me : I told your boss a few things he didn't like and refused to bend to his will and he terminated me.

My EX T : I'm sure you agree that it was your fault.